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When We Release Our Children

"Your child comes complete with a God-Ordained purpose, and they must be governed and groomed to 'fulfill that purpose.'"

One of the most intense decisions in life we must make as parents 'is when we release our children into the hands of life, and to allow them the capacity to decide on what kind of man or woman they would like to be.'

Releasing our seed 'is a very powerful thing.' While they are with us, 'they can imitate a lifestyle that they have not chosen for themselves.' As long as they are 'under our roof,' our laws are the ones that are to be obeyed.

But releasing them to the reality of their own sins, immaturity, and comprehension, is something entirely different. They must be released to choose what to do 'with their sins.' They too, must decide what to do with the Kingdom. They must decide to make the teachings that were given to them in the presence of their parents, 'their own life's food.'

Our children must also discover the Joys that come from Christ's forgiveness of sins in their own life.' They must experience the reality that comes with being 'delivered from the clutches of spiritual death,' as well as the overwhelming joy that comes as a result of their own, personal awakening in their God-Image!'

When you, as a parent, are faithful to the responsibilities that come with your Divine Nature and Purpose, it will 'free you from the guilt that can come as a result of your children's wrong choices.' A faithful parent is not defined by an unfaithful child, but by the integrity in which the parent has submitted themselves to the Government of God.

Your child comes complete with a God-Ordained purpose, and they must be governed and groomed to 'fulfill that purpose.' However, in the midst of them 'coming into their emotional selves,' they will experience the desire 'to test what they have been given.' They will experience the desire 'to explore other options and alternatives of the world.' This could turn into a fearful time 'if you allow it to.' But rest assured, God will be with them, just as He was with you.'

It is a hurtful thing 'to watch your child choose for themselves.' It can also be a frightful thing to watch your child 'experience life for themselves.' Even though you know 'their purpose, we must also give them over to the process of identifying the God-Ordained purpose for themselves.' They will never fulfill their destiny 'according to our parental preferences.' But we can be assured that they will fulfill their Calling 'according to the parameters and dynamics in which we too, have believed the Word as it relates to our own destiny.' Pray that your child 'matches or transcends your intensity of belief as it relates to the Word of God.'

I desire for my children to match, and even bypass, the faith of Bridget and myself.' I cannot 'create my child's world.' But I can 'give him a perfect picture in which to identify what true faith and commitment is.' I can become the perfect example of commitment. You can also. It hurts to let go. But let go you must.

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