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Discerning Between "Nice & Right"

"Many individuals compromise their capacity of significant relationships by settling for 'nice' instead of 'sent.' "

The first step in maximizing significant relationships is to set your mind free from the 'clutches of what is nice.' Many individuals compromise their capacity of significant relationships by settling for 'nice' instead of 'sent.' My wife would always ask women, "Do you desire a man of God, or a godly (good) man?"

Many have given up on being 'found by a man of God.' Now mind you, a man of God 'is not merely a preacher, nor is it only a preacher.' It is a man who has discovered 'how to be a Bride unto the Father.' When a male discovers how to be a bride, he will also know how to 'be a husband!'

Many emotions are attached or connected 'to the niceness of an individual instead of the maturity of an individual.' If you do not possess the power to discern between what is nice and what is sent, your emotions will continually take you on roller coaster rides in the mind, and the 'continual motions of recycling your emotions will cause you to become nauseated and on the verge of throwing up (giving up)!

You must first discern between what is nice, and what is right. 'Nice' is not always 'right,' and 'right' does not always 'feel nice!'

You cannot expect a 'nice person' to embrace the righteousness of your predetermined purpose in your generation. Now, I know that 'purpose' and the inner need for relationship and companionship 'seems as different as night and day.' But in truth, one's purpose 'does initiate the parameters and discernment within the confines of one's companionship and relationships.'

When one is on the verge of giving up 'being found,' they will be tempted to be drawn 'by their emotions,' and settle for 'what is nice' over what is right. 'Nice' is more easy to come by 'than right.' 'Right' takes a long time to bake, while nice 'is already wrapped and ready to go!'

"A stirred explorer, 'will look for the missing piece of his heart.' He is too stirred 'to sit back and let the Treasure come to him.' "

When a woman sees herself as treasure, she must understand that only 'a wealthy mentality' has the capacity to lose treasure. Treasure 'never asks to be found.' Treasure, as a matter of fact, 'doesn't even see itself as lost or misplaced.' Treasure 'is simply where it is.' The one who is searching for it, however, realizes the value of his search, and knows treasure when he sees it.' Treasure never makes an effort to be discovered. Treasure never speaks.

 

 

Treasure is sought after, but never speaks. Even though Treasure is silent, It makes it presence known 'by the stirring within the heart of the one who is searching for it!'

A stirred explorer, 'will look for the missing piece of his heart.' He is too stirred 'to sit back and let the Treasure come to him.' Explorers 'seek after, while Treasures are sought after!' Get it? Are you a Treasure 'that is seeking after the explorer?' If so, you are indeed 'messing up the order of seek and find!'

Are you being 'searched for?' Treasure will never scream out to the explorer, "I'm over here!" The challenge of the search, within the hearts of 'a true explorer,' always determines the value of the Treasure. The challenges and intensity of one's search will always create an equal depth of appreciation of the thing that is discovered.'

Appreciation is determined by the Challenges that were met to achieve the discovery.

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